NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell recently announced that any NFL player who
is found to have engaged in domestic violence, among other crimes, will
be suspended for six (6) games without pay for a first offense. A second
offense will result in a minimum one year suspension.
This is a good thing, right? Tougher penalties will reduce the instances
of domestic violence, won't they? To determine the answer we have
to look at both sides of the equation: players committing less acts of
violence against their significant others; and, significant others reporting
abuse when it occurs.
Enough high profile athletes have lost millions in salary and endorsement
deals as a result of committing abuse. However, it seems like we hear
about another example of it happening almost weekly. This seems especially
true of football players who, let's face it, are highly paid to physically
abuse one another on a weekly basis. Aggression is a way to success in
their business; the way they make a living. That in a moment of anger
in their personal life they will stop and reflect on the potential consequences
rather than act out in their "natural" way, is unlikely. Instead,
they have historically committed the act, tried to keep it from going
public, hired a high profile attorney if it does, and begged the league
for leniency in their penalty. For a recent example take a look at the
case of Ray Rice knocking out his fiancée at a NJ casino. In case
you don't know how that story ends, she still married him.
Will the new penalties discourage victim reporting?
But why would a woman put up with being abused? The average salary of an
NFL player is $1.9 Million per year. Now assume you are the wife or girlfriend
of an NFL player, who is making the NFL average, and maybe a little more
in endorsement deals. In addition to the wealth, you are enjoying the
lifestyle that goes along with being with a local, if not national, celebrity.
Things are going well until one day when he gets upset over a Facebook
message or text you send or receive from another guy or the way your gaze
lingers on another man while out at a club or restaurant. He expresses
that anger by grabbing you, slapping you, hitting you, or worse. What
do you do now that you know if you tell anyone he will be suspended for
6 games without pay? For your average NFL player, that is going to cost
him a little over $700,000. You do the quick math and given that price
tag, I submit you will likely do what women who are financially dependent
on men of every socioeconomic level do: quietly take the abuse and not
The NFL, like many other companies is taking this harder line on domestic
violence by its players. However, given the real life financial impact
it will have on the women abused, I feel this change will actually have
a chilling effect and lead to fewer reports rather than more.
As a domestic violence prosecutor and now as a defense attorney that regularly
handles cases involving domestic violence, I can say that the single most
common reason for charges of this nature to be reduced or dismissed altogether
is a victim who does not want to go forward with the case after figuring
out what the financial impact on her and her children will be. So while
I believe the NFL has their heart in the right place, by increasing the
cost to players by lengthening their suspensions I think the league will
unfortunately cause an even higher number of wives and girlfriends to
turn the other cheek rather than seek help for themselves and their abusers.
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